Noah received a special doll from Feel Better Friends. A Feel Better
Friend is a handmade doll made from lots of love and well wishes that
are made by volunteers donating their talent and time to bring smiles to
children battling illnesses and disabilities.
"In May of 2014 Shanon Fouquet, artits and designer from Shanonigans, came up with the idea when she saw a picture of a little girl, Berkeley who
was battling cancer holding her American Girl doll. Like most little
girls who have this popular doll, Berkeley was “twinning”, or dressed
identically with her doll. Shanon looked at this particular photo of
this brave little girl who was proud to be going ‘wigless’ to her
doctor’s appointment that day, and Shanon couldn’t help but wonder if
Berkeley would like for her doll to be able to go ‘wigless’ too. It was
then that Shanon decided to come up with a handmade doll created just
for her with a wig and matching clothes that could go ‘wigless’ just
like Berkeley! Shanon had so much fun making Berekley’s doll that she
decided to make more dolls for other children suffering from cancer and
other illnesses, who would like the comfort of a Feel Better Friends
doll custom made with their own likeness and characteristics. It was
then that the FBF project was started and quickly grew and soon there
were enough children wanting FBF dolls that Shanon couldn’t keep up.
She started a volunteer group of other crocheters who wanted to give
just like Shanon. Now with over 300 volunteers across the US and some
in other countries there are children all around the world receiving the
love and comfort of their very own FBF dolls."
Noah's
doll artist, Amy Anderson reached out to us in early May to coordinate
the details of Noah's doll. It's so important to them to make them as
closely as to the child as possible. Some incorporate disability
features like wheelchairs or walkers for their dolls, while others pick
themes and incorporate their child's likes. We had the choice between a
wheelchair accessory and an interchangeable Mr. Tumble outfit. The
choice was not a hard one. Right now Mr. Tumble is a huge part of
Noah's life. So we chose the Mr. Tumble outfit as an accessory for
Noah's doll. His doll was made super fast and in about two weeks
arrived for him. Noah adores his doll. And Luke recognizes that it's a
Noah's twin doll so he doesn't try to poach it from Noah. It stays
close by with him during the day and Noah does his best to wrap his arms
around him.
You can tell that a lot of love was
poured into this doll. It's a wonderful thing to find dolls that look
like our children and represent them and their abilities. Cognitively
Noah understands quite well his environment and surroundings and the
older he gets is becoming more aware of how different he is from most
people. Toys and dolls that resemble him I think help him identify that
although maybe different from most that there is still someone like him
- this sweet doll.
A new movement has started
with a compaign called Toy Like Me. A petition calling to action to
challenge more vendors to incorporate toys with disabilities into their
line. That could be simple things like a Lego set that you could build
offering a disabled parking space or ramp, dolls that have a wide range
of disabilities, a Little People line that have wheelchairs and
walkers. Everyday toys that any parent like me can find at Target or
Toys R Us that isn't going to cost us a fortune. And these toys would
be beneficial for typical children as well. It opens the doors for
questions and exposure to children of all abilities. I'd even someday
love to see larger motion picture movies start incorporating more
characters with disabilities. Anytime a large blockbuster movie comes
out they inevitably have a toy line to accompany it. But I have yet to
find a movie that has a character with disabilities that finds it way to
transforming into a toy that I'll eventually see in a Target isle. We
have a long way to go, but in the meantime I'm so grateful to Feel
Better Friends for designing this very special doll for Noah. A true
keepsake that he'll have for years to come.
Love,
Noah's Miracle by Stacy Warden is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-No Derivative Works 3.0 United States License.